Muslim funeral traditions and what to wear to a Muslim funeral service
Muslim beliefs about death
Most Muslims believe that good deeds they do in life will be rewarded with entry into Paradise on the Day of Judgement, which is when the world will end. On this day, they believe that the dead will rise and will either live in peace in Paradise or suffer in Hell.
Although this is a common belief among Muslims, there are many different sects within Islam, so the rituals and beliefs may vary between each.
Planning a Muslim funeral
Muslim funeral arrangements should begin immediately after the death of a loved one, since according to Islamic law, they must be buried as soon as possible. Families will usually contact a local Islamic organization so they can help with the planning of the funeral, as well as choosing a local funeral home with experience arranging a Muslim funeral.
Muslim funeral traditions
Generally, organ donation is allowed in Islam. However, autopsies are seen as a desecration and are not accepted by Islamic law, although they may still be a legal requirement.
Cremation is also prohibited, whereas embalming is accepted on occasion.
Before a Muslim funeral
The preparation before an Islamic funeral consists of two rituals called Ghusl and Kafan.
In the Ghusl, close family members of the same sex as the person who has died wash the person who has passed away. They are usually washed three times, but additional washes are not uncommon.
The Kafan involves the covering and wrapping of the person with large simple sheets, one on top of the other. The material and color of the cloth may vary according to regional customs, but men typically get buried with three sheets, whereas women are buried with five.
The person is placed on top of the sheets, with females traditionally being dressed in an ankle-length sleeveless dress and a head veil as well. The person is then wrapped in the material and secured with rope before being transported to the mosque.
Since Islamic law states that a person should be buried as soon as possible, usually no viewing takes place before a Muslim funeral service.
Muslim funeral service
Mourners will congregate in the courtyard, prayer room or study room of the mosque and recite Islamic funeral prayers.
The Muslim funeral service is led by an Islamic leader, known as an imam, and usually lasts from 30 to 60 minutes, although it can last longer. Besides funeral prayers, you can expect the service to include several readings from the Quran.
During the prayers, everyone must face towards Mecca and form at least three rows, with the closest male relative in the first row. Behind him the other male mourners, children and then women will assemble.
After a Muslim funeral, following the completion of the funeral prayers, the congregation will line up in rows and pass the coffin from shoulder to shoulder towards the gravesite for burial. Non-Muslim mourners should keep at a respectful distance to allow the coffin to be carried.
In the Islamic tradition, only men are allowed to attend the burial, although some Muslim communities also allow women to be present.
For a Muslim burial, the grave should be perpendicular to Mecca, with the person placed on their right side facing Mecca. While the person is being placed into the grave, mourners recite a prayer.
Wood and stones are placed on top so that the soil does not come into direct contact with the person. The imam may recite another prayer, and each mourner will then throw a handful of soil into the grave.
After a Muslim funeral
Traditionally, the family will gather in their home and receive guests after a Muslim funeral. Usually the community provides food for the bereaved for the first three days after the funeral.
The mourning period lasts for 40 days, but can often vary depending on the family. Traditionally, the period of mourning for widows is even longer – four months and ten days – in which they are forbidden to interact with men who they could potentially marry.
Muslim funeral etiquette
If you are attending an Islamic funeral and you are not a Muslim, it is important to observe certain traditions. For example, the Muslim funeral prayer should be recited only by members of the Muslim faith, though respectful observers are welcome.
What to wear to a Muslim funeral
When deciding what to wear to a Muslim funeral, be aware that both men and women are expected to dress modestly. For men this usually means a shirt and trousers. Women should wear ankle length skirts, long-sleeved high-neck tops and a headscarf, and be sure that no clothing is too tight or see-through.
Also be aware that shoes must be removed to enter the prayer hall of a mosque. Therefore you may want to wear presentable socks, tights or stockings.
For more information on religious funerals, visit our religious funerals page.